I go back and forth if I have it in me or not to be a stay at home mother. At times being a stay at home mom sounds nice but it is not in the cards for us, which is fine. I am lucky to have a flexible job that is not 8-5. I will have some weekdays off with our little guy and make up for it working nights and weekends. I need to talk and interact with adults and going to work does make me feel good about myself (most of the time). I go through the occasional time periods where I wish I didn't work with people in general because I get frustrated with "crazy" situations. Then I have a good day in clinic or labor and delivery and see wonderful people who are very grateful and will make wonderful parents and all is right in my world for the time being.
I do enjoy the occasional domesticated activity from time to time. I will be honest David does as much if not more than I do, especially in the kitchen (he made dinner tonight and did the dishes). However I like cleaning the house when David is at work while listening to music, sometimes cooking, baking, throwing the laundry in the washer and dryer (not folding and putting away) and lately I have picked up sewing. Quiet time in my house is about to end soon, as my friend Jess reminded me today, so I have decided to make the most of my days off by going to a work out class, apparently blogging or sewing. Today I made a baby sling with a little online instruction and my own modifications. I will try it out on my own child and see how it goes. If a success maybe I can find the time to make one for someone else. My first baby sling I made a long time ago did not work out so well. I have been taking sewing classes to improve my self-taught ways so hopefully it will pay off. Here are some pics of my work with the stuffed Moose my Sister and Dan got Charlie.

Pockets Sewn in the tail
I put snaps in so you can fasten the tail out of the way.
Lastly the other fasten goes up around my neck to make due as a "Hooter Hider". So exciting!
Some of my other projects...
Bibs, Diaper Changing Pads and a Quilt
Product testing prototype, Grayson wearing his Bib :)
To summarize my hat goes off to all of the amazing Moms and Dads out there who work or stay at home. I don't think there is a right or wrong and many people don't have the choice either way. My only opinion is if you do have a choice doing what makes you most happy without compromising too much is probably best for everyone. Happy parent = happy kid. My parents both worked full time growing up, I had amazing child care with Cindy Snider (Julie's Mom) and my Grandma. In addition I have wonderful memories with my Parents of everything we use to do together. I hope we can find this balance for Charlie, finding someone who can help us take care of him as well as my sister and I were taken care of.
Happy Nesting, Amy